Hello, although I haven’t really experienced this myself, I sympathize with the men and women who are dealing with the betrayal and heartache behind their spouses cheating. I’m afraid this is going on a lot more than people think, and it’s usually the ones that you least expect.
Like someone mentioned above, it’s not the actual act but the lying and the deceit that addicts will use to cover their tracks. Even when confronted they will deny they have a problem and try to blame the other person. I’m afraid many of these people will never change because they don’t want to. They may calm down for a while, but the urges will soon begin to reappear again.
It’s sad to hear the pain that the other side is experiencing and in many cases the only clear choice is to divorce that person, however hard it might be, because a lot will take advantage of that second chance and continue what they were doing. Good luck to you people.